Keeping the backdoor open......

Catching up with Jeff and Jumoke ( www.jumokeshotme.blogspot.com) after a long hiatus, conversation as often turned to looking at the peculiar society we live in. This time our discussion centered around being true to yourself and the possiblity that exist when the mind is opened to trying something new.

Both ladies talked about the fear of men to be vulnerable in turn forcing their partners to have alter egos.
How many men are willing to talk about their fantasies and how many would allow them experience those passions without self destructive feelings of guilt.

Being true to yourself requires brutal honesty, communicating that requires vulnerability to ridicule, judgement and the emotional maturity that comes with understanding that people are inherently different .
The possibility of digging too deep into the basis of my fantasy might ruin a good thing and possibly leave everyone an emotional wreck ......

So do we put on our game faces and avoid Jerry Springer style breakdowns or embrace total honesty and the risk it entails .....of multiple incandescent joy...

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