No .....we not cool like that
Every I walk away from someone who hurt me . I am left with a feeling part hollow and also powerful. What hasn't lost it's sour taste however is when the choice of walking away isn't mine...The colleague that throws me under the bus to the relative that spills my most devastating secret all requires the will to walk away and replace your hurt with the sage knowledge that this too will pass.However what gets me is the total forgiveness and renewal of relationship expected from me post apocalypse ....Why should I let this go? Why shouldn't I painstakingly plot your social oblivion and why o why is everyone shocked when I won't pay your fees, rent or even attend your child naming.It might be over but we are definitely not cool like that.